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5 Habits of Long-Term Power Couples.
A) They are playful and never cease dating.
They can laugh together and do not take themselves too seriously. They also understand that healthy long-term relationships are not always successful or exciting.
They have realistic expectations and take the extra time and effort to rekindle connection, enthusiasm, and excitement.
B) They respond generously to their partner’s bids for attention.
A bid for connection is an attempt to get attention, affection, or acceptance. E.G., How do I look?
Reaching out for a hug or sexual intimacy; Sharing a link or a joke. While responding to these bids generously is prevalent, in successful couples, successful couples do not respond positively 100% of the time.
C) They say ‘thank you and sorry’ quickly and often.
They pay attention to and frequently acknowledge their partner’s contribution to their own life.
They will give a genuine compliment and have no hang-ups about apologizing when they are at fault.
D) They forgive each other without keeping scores.
They know that people who love each other can inflict pain on each other and practice forgiveness without keeping scores or reminding their partner of their failings.
